Recently, I spoke at an event called Ignite. I really did! It was awesome.  It really was!

Rather than try to explain what this is, I’ll let the organizer’s explain.

From their web site:

“Enlighten us, but make it quick” is the slogan of Ignite–a community event celebrating the passion and creativity of geek culture, sponsored by O’Reilly Media. Ignite events showcase a series of speakers who, in rapid succession, give five-minute talks on whatever ignites their passion.

The format is half the fun with Ignite–speakers are allowed 20 slides that auto-forward every 15 seconds, whether they’re ready or not. Organized by volunteers in the local community and presented free of charge to their communities, Ignite talks range from “Starting your own role playing game” to “The impending death of Internet Explorer” to “Zombie Defense for n00bs”.

My topic was “How to convince your friends that you’ve seen a sasquatch, (assuming that you actually did).”  I spoke about the importance of doing this right, so as to make your friends believe you, as opposed to thinking you’re insane.

Here are a few pics of me speaking:

Now, I do have experience speaking in front of people.  A lot of it. I often pretend to be a West Jordan mom speaking loudly about paying for her and her kids to see a spray-painted donkey that was supposed to be a zebra in Riverton on quiet late night flights. I laugh loudly and just a little late every time a football hits the groin in great comedies like Paul Blart: Mall Cop and Night at the Museum 2. I also love to yell “Utah Jazz undefeated! Two time world champs!” while crossing the street in a crowd with my friend Will on our way into the Energy Solutions Arena.

My formal public speaking background is a specialized forum known as policy debate.  Policy debate is two person high school or college teams competing head to head for the win in approximately 70 minute debates at large tournaments held around the country over the course of three days.  These debates are highly intense and competitive, and focus much more on the arguments presented than the style of delivery traditional public speaking.

Here is an example of a college debate round:

As you can see, this is not toastmasters.  So going into Ignite I was NERVOUS.  Anyway, the speech went really well.  I kept pace with my slides for the most part, and got a few laughs in the process.

Now, my thoughts on the activity.

First, it was a lot of fun.  I could seriously do stuff like that all the time.  The energy in the crowd was amazing, and I feel like they really learned a lot from my speech

Keeping pace with the slides is the biggest challenge.  I would have liked to flow better with the timing as opposed to fighting it, but at least I didn’t get way behind and have to catch up, or get way ahead and have dead air.  Timing is one of the things that this forum would help me with most.

Next time, I will spend a lot more time with the creative process, and a little more time rehearsing.  Having lots of good quality content but not a script is best.  You need to have more to say than you will actually say, since you will have to adjust for applause and laughter.  I think it’s best to have lists of examples to illustrate points, and you can either add or subtract from that list depending on how much time you actually have for that slide.

For example, one of my slides was “Why would I lie? I would lose everthing, my family, my credibility, my sasquatch tracking business, my sasquatch paraphanelia and curio emporium, and my line of sasquatch hair care and hygiene products.”  That took me about 15 seconds to say in rehearsal, but by the time I got there I was a little behind and I had to rush the hair care and hygiene products line and really should have just deleted it to catch up.

Practice with either a stationary microphone prop, or with one in your hand.  I was moving around a lot and gesturing with both hands in rehearsal.  Having to keep the microphone up to my mouth threw me off.

Physically engage your slides.  For example, find key moments to point at something for emphasis, turn and act surprised at something shocking such as a closeup picture of a sasquatch for comedic effect, waive a slide forward as if you’re actually controlling it, or point at a slide with both hands and do a sweeping gesture toward the crowd as if to physically deliver the content.  Physically connecting to your slides will help you build timing, appear more in control, and create a seamless delivery rather than two presentations happening at once.

If you go last as I did, or later in the lineup, try to draw a couple of references to earlier speeches.  If there was a moment earlier in the night that made a strong impression on the crowd, (good or bad), reference that moment in order to amplify it’s effect.  For example, I thought of drawing a parallel between zombies and sasquatches, or using the word dude, with a pause, based on 3 different earlier presentations.  This will take savvy since you’ll have to deviate from the original plan, but if you’re using lists like mentioned above, you should be able to incorporate this reference with a substitution. The downside to this strategy is that it may make you stumble since it will be unrehearsed, but if it’s timed well and subtle it could have a big payoff.

Show some awareness that you’re at Ignite.  Make reference to the fact that you’re doing a speech, at Ignite.  Have an awareness of what that means.  What does it mean?  First of all, 300+ people are listening to what you have to say, and there will be an impact on them.  If you’re doing a speech with a political message, what would you like them to do with that message?  What is your purpose in being there? Is that purpose coming through (implicitly or explicitly) in your speech?  What are the limitations to the forum and how are you interacting with the inherent boundaries?  Are you stretching/bending them or remaining strictly within them?  What does Ignite have to do with your topic, if anything?  What role is the audience playing in your presentation?  Are they more of an active participant or passive observers?  Answering these questions as part of your preparation will make your experience at Ignite deeper and richer.

Finally, prepare not only for your speech, but for you whole Ignite experience.  Remember, there is a lot of time to mingle.  Do you want to meet people while you’re there? Are you going to network?  Who do you want to invite?  What is your approach to networking while you’re there?  I’m not saying you have to have a sales pitch or anything, but a basic strategy for meeting and greeting will help you have a better time.

Thank you Ignite good night!

The basics

Munch is to be eaten between supper and breakfast, particularly after binge drinking and/or smoking pot. Many already partake of this meal, usually at all night eateries like Denny’s or Dee’s, but remain torn between ordering breakfast and supper. Munch should be acknowledged as an independent, stand alone meal and munch food should be perfected by munch chefs and served at munch houses across the nation. I would like to hear munch house servers utter the phrases, “sorry sir, but we’re only serving munch right now. Would you like to see our munch menu or hear about our munch specials?”

The word

The word munch derives from the combination of midnight and lunch. Midnight lunch, for the peak hour it is served and the other meal it resembles most closely. Also derivative of the pot cultural term “munchies.” Munch is Onomatopoeia for the sound made when the meal is eaten, and it describes its consumption in manner and style.

The food

Munch food is generally good for the food industry since it consists of large quantities of cheaply made, addictive food. Classic examples include chicken fingers, mozzarella sticks, chicken wings, and nachos. All munch food comes with a variety of fatty dipping sauces and even the “healthy” choices should be “lightly” fried. In addition, there should be specific munch-only food. I’m no munch chef, but I’m thinking cheddar crackers and all four flavors of easy cheese for starters, a full jar of crunchy peanut butter with spoon as entree, finished with a jar of creamy peanut butter with chocolate sauce or marshmallow cream for dessert. I also want to see a variety of whole animals ranch battered, then deep fried, then re-battered, then country fried, then buttermilk battered, then butter fried, then beer battered, then Crisco fried, then corn battered, then trans fat fried, then served with dipping sauces brought out in shot glasses lined up on an old ski, or a canoe paddle.

The munch house

Munch houses should always be steep roofed A-frame type buildings with cedar shingles and large neon signs salvaged from 70’s bowling alleys out front. They should be dimly lit with ash trays (even in no smoking states) at each table. They should be on the forefront of restaurant gimmickry such as getting text based facebook order status updates on your blackberry, voice command prompts from On Star or Garmin to hold your table in the case of a collision or rollover en route, and Ron Paul/Super Dell Schanze in 2012 midnight tableside voter registration drives. The staff should be called “munchkins” and the servers should take deep breaths of helium before asking if more fry sauce or ranch is needed. They should always be carpeted, wall to wall with marine salvage carpet. The walls should be faux wood paneling with Polaroids of famous bass fisherman and 70’s basketball players in short shorts who have dined there. Menus and vinyl booths should be coffee stained and sticky. Ski ball and wack-a-mole should be standard, but the ski balls will often be missing and the mole heads broken or worn to a nub since they will be carnival and/or Chuck E. Cheese salvage. Juke boxes will hold many titles and artists, but will only play Winona Judd since they will be truck stop salvage. A munch house should feel like home.

Munch culture

Munch can be eaten in either club clothes or sweats, but never business attire. The drunkest person should always pick up the tab, whether voluntarily or through trickery. There is no flirting or hooking up at munch. Munch is about being gross and disgusting, time to let down the bar personae and cut loose the belt buckles. Munchers will often have makeup smears from dance floor sweat, drink stains, flat hair, dejected expressions, squinty eyes and a general reversal of the hours of getting ready to go out earlier. Sometimes you go home with the one you want, sometimes you gather up the girls (or boys) and go to munch.

Let’s do munch

In the beginning, there were three meals a day. As civilization has become more egalitarian, things like golf, marital infidelity, and brunch are no longer just for the rich. There is already a rich body of lore touting munch as the key to avoiding hangovers. I believe that with some slick advertising, a P.R. campaign highlighting starving Africans who can’t afford munch, and heavy pressure from the munch lobby, munch will be taught as the most important meal of the weekend to children in elementary school nutrition classes nationwide. For my readers, get in on this now. You may be seeing a lil pepper’s munch house in your neighborhood if you don’t.

The statue reminds me of the sandy blonde haired and blue eyed Jesus that so many in our western society feel more “comfortable” relating to.  If Jesus was represented as a middle easterner we would have fewer problems in the world.  If the miners that built the wealth and prosperity that we currently benefit from were portrayed accurately it may help us to become a more inclusive, tolerant, and diverse community. 

I would like to suggest to the leaders of our community that we honor our past by erecting statues and artwork that depict how things really were, even if they were not always noble and dignified. 

Mining conditions were notoriously inhumane at the turn of the century and often immigrants with no voice in the electoral process were brought in and exploited to line the pockets of their Caucasian employers.  I do think that we should be proud of our mining history but I also think we have come a long way from the labor conditions of the past and that we could learn even more if we made a choice to confront rather than obscure its legacy. 

Respectfully,

Kellen McAffee
Old Town

Diaper changer needed for depends party (Temple View Motel)

We are having a depends party in downtown Salt Lake at the Temple View Motel and need a diaper changer to assist us in our changing room.

We will all be wearing depends brand adult diapers and nothing else. We drink mocktails and eat burritos all night and never have to go to the bathroom! So liberating.

What we need: someone who will wear a sexy Mary Poppins outfit and run the changing room for the night. Your duties will include application of desitin, ointments, powders, and putting on new diapers whenever one of our sexy guests makes a doo-doo or a pee-pee. You will need to be very tidy and professional in manner and appearance. Diaper experience is required. Some spanking and burping required. Matronly only. Discretion is a must since Kurt Bestor and Chris Buttars will be in attendance.

Please reply with cover letter and resume and you will be considered for an interview.

Thanks and I hope to hear from you soon.

• Location: Temple View Motel
• it’s NOT ok to contact this poster with services or other commercial interests
• Compensation: Depends

Dear editor,

I would like to offer a word of caution to young Cameron Gallagher: don’t become a fascist.  In a police state, all citizens police each other and ultimately internalize the law and unthinkingly police themselves.  In a free society, citizens use reason and persuasion to make choices that they believe will benefit society at large.  People should think for themselves and not use the law to do their thinking for them.  For a free person, “because it’s the law” is never a sufficient response.

Why do we follow the speed limit?  Is it because the sign tells us how fast to drive and nothing more?   Or is it because we want kids to feel safe on their bikes and on foot?  If it is the former, we will only obey when we think we might get caught and constantly push the limits.  If it is the latter, a more rational approach to driving is the result.  Speed limits are arbitrary, road conditions are not.

Side note: The police department issued 2733 tickets in 2008.  If my last ticket of $85.00 is a good measure, the city collected at least $232,305.  Use this money for sidewalks, every penny.  For government rates this would probably buy 10 feet of sidewalk.  Hire me and my friends and we’ll put sidewalks along every road in Park City with this money.   Why isn’t Park City the world leader in bike paths?

I trust that Cameron’s movement is a response to a failure in the way that laws are obeyed and enforced in our society.  He’s not saying drive slow all the time, he’s saying drive appropriately.  I trust that he’s not doing the police department’s dirty work; he’s doing his neighborhood’s bidding.  To P.C. drivers: use Cameron’s inspiration to become an empowered driver.  Use reason and don’t blindly follow speed limit signs only when someone is looking. 

Cameron, keep up the good work and don’t become a fascist. 

Kellen McAffee
Old Town

Hey guys I’m Tami lol just bored here lol seein what’s out there. I live downtown in Salt Lake lol. I like bees games, the arcade, the jazz, roller skating, ecsetera. I hate the cold lol.

I’ve never done anything like this before, just bored I guess. Not really lookin for long term just have some fun!!! My friends tell me I’m cute but I’m not always sure, I’d like someone to tell me I am! Know what I mean? I am looking for a date, I guess lol, or maybe some dinner or whatever. I don’t know anything really, I just need a man to hold me, i guess.

Anyway, if you want to chat I’m always online so send me an email i guess. Don’t talk politics though,lol I love snowmobiling and other stuff.

I would prefer a smoker, no weed just camels lol . Sorry marbro guys:(

Also, I like puppies, so ya, bonus points lol! Oh yeah, I have one wierd thing, I like anal, definitely. And older men.

Ok well, bye for now guys lol!

183 replies to this one and the winner is:

“Rilly bored hear”

so hey came across your add,can definiately relate to your boredom .im presently staying in farmington,i like to do things that i never get to,i smoke camels,and like weird things.i like puppies but dont have any sorry. its saturday bored as usual thinkin about tryin luck in wendover, you go there ?i’d do better at winning black eyes chasin the wrong wemen than gamblin some times.lol what do you think. p.s. im 41 look good i think? dont have anyone to tell me that either.any interest???dave

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Since I am now a fully fledged blogger, I feel like I need a new hair style.  I’m thinking of switching to the “Blago,” the highly protective hair style currently popularized (patent pending) by celebrity ex-governor Rod Blagojevich.  I think that my hair has the luster and body to make it happen, not to mention I have the f#*&in’ attitude to pull it off.

My local mafia barber can easily handle the cut, and I can hold it neatly in place with military grade hair gel.  Desert Storm brand hair gel is the best on the market and costs 4000 bucks an ounce. 

Let me assure you that for the feeling of security I get when face my critics it’s worth every penny.  It was made before Operation Desert Storm was ever launched and is based on holding hair in place during an actual desert storm. 

The first desert storm was actually in the 80′s when Reagan applied a test batch of this stuff to his helmet before his stand off with Kadhafi.

By the way, you would not believe how ridiculous the prices are for military grade styling products and toiletries right now.

Hair styling technology is so advanced these days, that as long as you can grow hair, you can literally have any hair you want.  With some cash and a skilled stylist, you could have any of the styles pictured here.  You can have any length, color, cut, curl, implant, frizz, dreadlock, weave, braid, or fro imaginable. 

Speaking of high tech hair, due to the military grade quality of my Blago, I will be able to withstand criticism of any kind.  Even though it is clear that I am crooked, I will be able to adamantly deny any wrongdoing regardless of the evidence against me. 

Unlike other armor used by the U.S. military, they build the best goddamn hair helmets in the world.  Top brass take so much fire from critics that a rugged hair helmet is crucial.

True to his roughneck reputation, Stormin’ Norman Schwarzkopf did not wear a hair helmet when he stormed the desert of Iraq.  Real cowboys don’t need helmets. 

Like many fine but not so macho statesman before me, my Blago brand hair helmet will help me to fend off all criticism, criminal charges, and carpet blogging by angry extremists in the blogosphere. 

The Blago. Talk to the hair.

A formidable helmet in his day

You too can have the split microwaved poodle!

One for each day of the week?

The Wolf. His helmut is wired with GPS.

Stormin' Norman. Not even circumcised.

Re-thinking the burial

Cemeteries are Ivory Homes suburban cookie cutter spec. home developments for the dead.  Stuffed corpses are packed into uniform, gridded plots with only trivial differences such as the size and detail of the headstones.  Ancestors visit the plot once a year to make sure that it has more flowers, balloons, and cheesy decorations than the neighbors’ plot.  If you can plant your corpse at the end of a really nice graveyard cul-de-sac on a hill you’ve really made it.  Sometimes kids need to be yelled at for playing on grave lawns.  Transitioning from a deadened suburban existence to a cemetery is practically seamless; just move your bloated corpse from the couch to the casket.

Texas graveyard law states that the casket must be buried 1.5 feet deep if the top is made of “impermeable” material, 2 feet if not. This is gross.  Think of the flooding in New Orleans, there were floating caskets.  Now think of global warming and sea levels rising.  Ewww. 

Most cemeteries in the United States are actually for-profit and rely on aggressive ‘pre-need’ plot sales.  Teams of sales people cold call the living to get them to act now and finance (mortgage?) their plots while supplies last.  Apparently this business is recession proof according to a brief survey of the industry. Capitalism always thrives on death.  

The burial process itself is disgusting.  Corpses are pumped full of toxic chemicals in order to preserve them forever and eventually they leach into the ground and pollute.  In no other context is it ok to pour gallons of toxic chemicals into the ground (at least not openly and ceremoniously).  At least 2 liters of nasty fluid are pumped into an adult during the embalming process.  Do the math.  Also, opulent caskets that cost thousands of dollars are immediately buried and left forever to rot. 

Xeriscaped cemeteries?  When hell freezes over.  Saudi Arabian graveyards are more lush than their golf courses.  I understand there’s a movement toward “green cemeteries.”  Sounds like “green” nuclear waste dumping to me.  Perhaps energy solutions could get a deal to import corpses from U.S. carpet bombing overseas when we finally reach peak capacity.

Zombie movies often involve cemetery mayhem of apocalyptic proportions and prove at very least that 2 feet deep is not enough.  One sign of the biblical apocalypse is when the dead rise from the grave.  Not even corpses can stand the places.  Grave robbers are the next pirates and should not be tempted by further populating these morbid suburbs of death.  Is it any coincidence that two of the scariest movie genres revolve around suburbs and cemeteries?

Some may say that headstones are cool.  I can agree with that.  Burying bodies stuffed with pollution is not a prerequisite. Necrophiliac orgies are also not an argument in favor of the graveyard.  After a week or so the magic kind of goes away, I’m told.

Seriously though, when will it end?  We are going to bury all 9 billion people currently living on the planet (minus those who are cremated or otherwise laid to rest) in graveyards.  The logical conclusion is that the entire earth will eventually become one massive cemetery. 

Inevitably we must rethink the burial.

When I die I want my family to pay off the mortician (since it is illegal to take possession of your own corpse) and take my body before they pump it full of formaldehyde.  I want them to drive me to the mountains and bury me in a previously decided secret location in the wilderness.  I want to be planted beneath a young blue spruce and allowed to decompose into rich compost so that my ancestors can come and visit the tree and know that it is me.  If I am loved, perhaps my loved one can be buried next to me in the same fashion.

Single mothers who are prostitutes face a unique dilemma: what to do with the tots when they go to work?  Unlike other working single mothers, single mom hookers work odd hours; usually weekend nights, when there are few if any daycare solutions available to them.  Asking family and friends to help can be embarrassing, inconvenient, and uncomfortable. Nearly all mothers who work as prostitutes are likely also single.

I’m not here to judge, I don’t care what you do to make a living.  I think that access to daycare is important for all families when needed and hookers are certainly no exception.  Prostitutes have long been casualties of our moralistic society even though it means making the children the unwitting victims.

In light of these facts, I propose the following:

Grand opening!!!

The Sin ‘Der’ Garter: Late Night Day Care for Hooker Moms

Hours: 10 p.m.-5 a.m. Friday, Saturday.  Lunch hour Monday-Friday.

Price:  percentage of night’s earnings or hourly rate.

Locations:  Lobby of business traveler hotel for easy drop off/pick up.  I’m thinking either the Red Lion or the Holiday Inn Express by the airport.

Amenities: Changing room (for mothers), sponge bob info-toons on ‘what mommy does for money,’ stackable washer/dryer with extra delicate setting for freshening up between client meetings, sanitary products depository/commissary, clinic with standard childhood vaccinations AND STD testing and treatment, and crystal clear web cam/baby cam services.

Seriously, again, someone should get right on this.